Seandainya 3 harus ditambah ama 4 menurut kamu hasilnya berapa?
Kalo kamu jawab 7, itu jawaban kaku.
Kalo Account, jawabnya seperti ini: “Emang reject-nya berapa Pak?”.
Kalo Quality Officer, jawabnya seperti ini: “Coba saya hitung dulu repeatability dan Reproducibility-nya”.
Kalo bagian Marketing, jawabnya seperti ini: “Maunya Bapak berapa?”.
Kalo kamu, jawab apa????
Change is inevitable in our life, but it is not always welcome. A new job, a new home, a new relationship or even just a new shiny gadget will affect our life in a much more complicated way than we were expecting. It is essential that we don’t overreact to any discomfort we are feeling about this transition. Give ourself time to get used to things, and do not jump to the conclusion that we have made a huge mistake. There is no going back — the only way is forward.
Ada saatnya, manakala doa yang sangat kering sekalipun justru yang didengar Tuhan. Lantas Dia, dengan sifat rahman-Nya, membuat hatimu meronta betapa kau kehilangan-Nya, merindukan-Nya.
Ketika hatimu terluka parah, hanya ada tiga aturan main : Jangan mengenyahkan kepedihan itu, Jangan pernah mencoba untuk mengerti, dan jangan tenggelam dalam kepedihan itu.
Buatlah dirimu berserah diri seperti sebatang pohon muda yang terperangkap dalam badai. Biarkan badai itu menghantammu. Jangan pernah menentangnya, dan jangan pernah pula membantah keberadaannya, bagaimana mungkin kita bisa menafikan angin dan hujan, dan jangan pernah menyesalinya.
Kepingan guci yang terjatuh pecah berserakan itu seperti pecahan hati kita. Kita bisa mengumpulkannya dan mencoba menyatukannya kembali, tapi guci itu tak akan pernah sama seperti sediakala.
You cannot rush anyone into feeling more or wanting more than they are ready for. Focus on the people who already know and appreciate you. Let anyone else come to their conclusions in their own time. Give them space to let them feel comfortable.
Terkadang hal ini terjadi,,,,
Kadang bicara dengan sang Penulis, terasa tidak sekomunikatif manakala kita membaca tulisan sang Penulis.
Barangkali memang tak ada yang harus diputuskan. Kehidupan ini akan membawamu mengalir dan kau hanya tinggal mengikuti, tanpa harus terbasahi, seperti halnya bayi Musa. (Mauriel Maufroy : 93).
1. Observe something. Make a comment about something you observe in the environment. No matter where you are, there is always something interesting to comment on.
2. Smile. This shows her that you are friendly and confident.
3. Do not hesitate. If you hesitate in your approach, this tells her that you are not feeling confident — an immediate turn-off. Show her you are a man who knows what he wants and goes after it.
4. Positive body language.Stand up straight, with shoulders back and chest out, and use a firm yet relaxed walk.
5. Not too fast. A calm, casual approach is usually the best way to make her feel at ease with you.
6. Keep eye contact. Never be the first to break eye contact when you approach.
7. Listen up. Make sure you pay careful attention to what she says.If you start throwing out random words, she will lose interest fast.
8. Do not fidget. If you communicate that you are uncomfortable, she will feel uncomfortable, too, and will close up.
9. Lighten your tone of voice. The tone of your voice is a very powerful tool. You could begin in a serious tone, followed by a quick smile to let her know you are joking.
10. Lean away from her.This lets her know that you respect her space, boundaries, and are comfortable with yourself.
Keep in mind that life isn’t about the height of the mountain you’re climbing - it’s all about the journey you choose to take to get there. Cutting corners or taking shortcuts certainly aren’t against the rules, but getting to the top too fast could keep you from having some amazing experiences.
Bener juga sie,,,
Apalagi kalo sampe dikasih tau, jodoh Loe tuh inisialnya ini, kalo Loe ndak sama yang ini, gak bakal bahagia ato bla bla bla…
Selain itu, bakalan bikin Loe gak kreatif, gak nikmatin hidup yang loe jalanin, yach,,, pokoknya gak asik dach.
Things aren’t ever going to be perpect, and no one expects them to be. If you focus to much on what could be better, you will miss out on all the things that working so well.
Janten keudah kumaha atuh???
Bersyukurlah pada-Nya atas apa yang ada.
